thanks tehill, it worked great, sorry I couldn't respond earlier, wasn't home for a few days

err wait,
edit w32_start_editor.bat so that the line with DaimoninEditor.jar looks like this:
javaw.exe -Xmx128m -Xms128m -jar DaimoninEditor.jar
or this:
javaw.exe -Xmx256m -Xms256m -jar DaimoninEditor.jar
which one? when I went to edit on it in the beggining it said...
REM *** this should start the editor **[]
cd editor[]
copy DaimoninEditor.jar.tmp DaimoninEditor.jar
java.exe -jar DaimoninEditor.jar[]
cd ..
there's two "DaimoninEditor.jar"'s I see..?
( it doesn't copy the little boxes, so I replaced them with "[]")